Progressive Thinkers | Fishing for Swingers

How to Swing With a Single Woman

January 5th, 2010 | Author: Gina

Swinging usually involves an exchange of partners between married or dating couples. In such a liberated sexual environment, however, you can bring a single woman to a swingers’ gathering.

Look in local gay or lesbian classified sections of newspapers and underground publications for possible swinging single women. The classifieds offer a wealth of possibilities and options for the alternative lifestyle crowd.
Find a social club or community activity that accepts swinging as a way of life and embraces its benefits and freedoms. Never go to an unknown location without telling someone where you are going and with whom.
Consider open-minded friends as potential partners as a bond already exists that may blossom into a richer relationship. Approach the subject delicately with friends and probe their inhibitions to determine where she might stand on the issue.
Visit tasteful gay and alternative bars or nightclubs. These businesses cater to an upscale crowd of typically progressive thinkers that embrace the swinging lifestyle without judgment.
Allow partners to explore the event at their own pace. Some may be more experienced than others and need less reassurance and guidance than newer swinging single women.
Prepare to gently decline any offer to participate in any activity that may injure or invoke discomfort in your partner. Conversely, try new activities with an open mind to experience a swinging single woman’s full range of techniques.
If entertaining, provide a safe environment for the swinging single woman. Pleasant, non-threatening surroundings are always a comfort. Consider establishing a “safe-word” to indicate a boundary area for a stopping point. Offer a wide range of lubes, sex toys and adult oriented media to enhance the experience.
Visit online networking sites like Craigslist, which feature ads from men and women who are looking to swing with couples or singles.